What can parents do when a child isn’t old enough to do
many of the things other children do? This is an especially difficult
situation if the child has older brothers or sisters who
are allowed privileges the younger child is denied.For example,
many young children want to go outside without supervision. They may
even run away from home or slip out when parents aren’t looking. Naturally, if this happens, parents are going to be upset and worried, perhaps angry.
What to do? Be honest with your child about your feelings, but try,
also, to let him know you understand his feelings.“You wanted to go out by
yourself like the big kids. You got mad when I wouldn’t let you. So you went anyway. I understand how you feel, but I can’t let you go out alone. I get very worried and upset that something might happen to you.”
It’s hard for children to understand that they will be allowed
more privileges as they get older. In the meantime, parents can take
some comfort in the fact that this situation won’t last forever. ❏
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